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🤝 Etiquette & Pace of Play

The unwritten rules that make the day

Golf's etiquette is really just courtesy and common sense — looking after each other's safety, the course, and everyone's time. Get these right and you'll be a welcome partner in any group, whatever you shoot. Tap any topic to open it.

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Never hit into the group ahead — and shout "Fore!"
The one rule with real stakes: a golf ball can seriously hurt someone. Wait until the group ahead is safely out of range before you hit.
  • If your ball looks like it may head toward anyone, shout "Fore!" loudly and immediately — that's the universal warning to duck and cover.
  • If you hear "Fore!", don't look up to find the ball — turn away and protect your head.
  • Stand well clear and to the side when someone else is swinging, never directly ahead or behind.
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Play "ready golf"
In friendly rounds we don't stand on the formal "honor" system — we play ready golf: whoever is ready and safe to play, plays, regardless of who's farthest from the hole.
  • Think through your shot while others are hitting, so you're ready when it's your turn.
  • Go to your own ball rather than following the group to each ball in turn.
  • On the tee, if the player with the honor isn't ready, someone else can go.
The simple goal: be ready to hit when it's safe, and you'll never hold anyone up.
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Keep up, and let faster groups through
Your position on the course is measured by the group ahead of you, not the one behind. Keep pace with the group in front.
  • If you fall a full hole behind and a group is waiting on you, invite them to play through — wave them up, stand aside, and let them pass. It's gracious and it resets everyone's pace.
  • Park your cart or set your bag toward the next tee, not back where you came from, so you walk off promptly.
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Limit the search for a lost ball
Looking for a ball is the biggest time-sink in golf. The rules allow three minutes to search — and in a friendly round, less is kinder.
  • If you suspect your ball is lost or out of bounds, hit a provisional before walking forward — a second ball from the same spot, in case the first one is gone.
  • Wave the group behind through if a search is taking a while.
  • There's no shame in dropping a ball and playing on — the round matters more than one lost ball.
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Leave the course better than you found it
A little care keeps the course good for the groups behind you and for next week:
  • Replace your divots (or fill them from the sand bottle on the cart).
  • Rake bunkers after you play from them, smoothing out your footprints and the shot.
  • Repair your ball marks on the green, and a spare one too — it takes seconds.
  • Follow cart signs and the 90-degree rule; keep carts well off tees and greens.
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On the green & around the group
Small courtesies make the round pleasant for everyone:
  • Be still and quiet while someone is playing — no talking, no walking in their eye-line.
  • Don't walk on another player's putting line, and don't let your shadow fall across it.
  • The player nearest the hole tends the flagstick; the first one holed out can pull the pin.
  • Silence your phone. A quick photo of the group is lovely; a ringing phone mid-swing is not.
Above all, be good company. Compliment a good shot, keep quiet on a bad one, and help a newcomer feel welcome. That's the whole game.
SIR Golf — Etiquette & Pace of Play · SIR San Mateo
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